NaBloPoMo- The Last List for March

Today is the 31st and final day of NaBloPoMo March 2008. Though I have been blogging here everyday this month, I kinda lost focus in the third week due to my work commitments.

What this experience taught me:

1. It is good to have a plan, but don’t be blue if you can’t follow it through. My daily themed posts worked. For awhile.
2. If you’re in the middle of a project that needs to be completed by mid-April, signing up for NaBloPoMo in March is not the wisest thing to do.
3. Despite the lure of “Letters“, I will not give in to temptation. (see point 2)
4. There are so many of fun, witty blogs just waiting to be discovered.

For those committing to April’s theme — all the best! I will try to find time to check your all blogs out!

Me™
The Most Important Presentation You’ll Ever Make

How you present yourself can directly affect the way people think of you. Here are some of the lessons I learnt over the years.

1. Dress appropriately My first job in the creative industry was with a company that that pitched projects for a lot of big corporations. I had no prior experience yet I find myself constantly being asked to be present at client meetings. The reason given was because I make a very believable designer as apposed to “X, who looks like he got just got out of bed, got ran over by a bus and then rolled himself in dirt” or “Y, who looks like a frazzled soccer mom though she’s only 23″. I assumed this meant that I looked like one of them:

   

   (Stylish Carmen, Edgy Christian, Cool Kit from Project Runway)
   On the other hand, it could also mean that I looked like him:

   

   (Flamboyant, Colourful, Crazeh? By the way, I love Chris, he’s such a great character)

   In any case, it was the way I presented myself that influenced the exec’s decision. I was barely 20 and inexperienced, yet because of the way I dressed, I got the opportunity to network with a lot of people, contacts that proved useful in my career later. Lesson: Don’t come to work looking like you’ve been rolling around in dirt.

2. Dress for success. A year later, in my second job, I decided that I’m ready for bigger things and want to be taken more seriously. I switched to aspiring creative director mode and dressed the part. I got promoted twice in the space of 14 months, one of the reasons being, “You look like someone I can trust to lead a project.” Was I more competent than my fellow colleague who had 2 years more experience? Maybe, but my boss also let on, “He doesn’t look like he’s up for it. I don’t have the confidence in sending someone looking like that to the world. He doesn’t look like a leader.” Being an introvert, I didn’t think of myself as a natural leader. I just dressed like one. Interestingly, when I dressed like winner, I felt like one too.
3. Say it like you mean it. A lot of inexperienced designers(this applies to other jobs too) tend to share the problem I too had when I was starting out. We may have the talent to create but we don’t have the skill to sell. One of the main problems lies in not sounding confident enough. There are a two things you can do to instantly improve this. Speak up. You need to get yourself heard. Clearly. Do not rush or mumble your sentences - you’d either be constantly asked to repeat yourself, or your points would be lost. Don’t end sentences with a rising inflection. Some people have the habit of ending statements with a rising tone? Like this? I’m trying to tell you something but I sound like I’m asking a question? This gives the impression that the speaker is unsure of him/herself. Or you might sound like a teenager?
4. Stop over-qualifying your statements and accept credit when it’s due.
   A talented designer I know likes to qualify every statement she makes with “But that’s just my opinion” or “It’s okay, it’s only my opinion” instead of simply saying “In my opinion”. Do not devalue your own opinion. If you don’t take your own opinions seriously, chances are no one else will.What’s even more annoying is the fact that she finds the need to qualify her “thank you’s” too. Instead of just saying “thanks” when complimented, she’d be saying things like “Oh, this crap? It’s not that great actually” or “It was nothing. I didn’t do much”. It doesn’t always come across as being modest. Too much self-depreciation also shows that you don’t value your own contribution.
5. Smile.
   As simple as it sounds, it took me a long time to realise that a smile can indeed go a mile. I spent years trying to find out why a friend of mine, J, is so magnetic. Strangers come up to talk to her and she always get served first. At first, I didn’t even know why I love hanging out with her so much. Then I realised that she smiles. A lot. It’s nice to be around someone who is the picture of positivity. I smile a lot now and it’s true, I do get served faster and people tend to open up to me more.

Junk Food Day

After looking at the cute stuff from Re-Ment, I found myself craving for a lot of things. The sad thing is, I got myself a lot of junk food and ate them in one sitting:

1 garlic butter bread
1 bowl instant noodles
1 coffee-filled chocolate bar
3 slices of white bread with chocolate spread
1 bag of salted nuts
6 Mentos
1 can of Pringles chips (oh oh!)

Not too proud of myself. I’m having a bit of a tummy ache. I wonder why…

Kid’s Answers to Life

My favourite answers from “Kids’ Answers to Life’s Big Questions” by Steve & Ruth Bennett.

Q. What makes rainbows?
A. Pieces of sunset.

Q. What should you do when you feel like hitting someone?
A. Ask them if they want to be hit.

Q. What kinds of things make people happy?
A. John Lennon.

Q. What are some things to be sad about?
A. Running out of coffee. < True

Q. Why do countries fight wars?
A. Because they don’t like cats and the other country has cats.

Q. What does the vice-president do?
A. He golfs.

Happiness is…

Today, happiness is:

Seeing my little cat falling asleep in the middle of playing with a measuring tape
Warm coffee that tastes like golden sunshine, sweet cinnamon and roasted chestnuts
Squeezing the tummy of my fat cat, who was asleep on its back
My room resplendent in the rich glow of a warm morning

Up And Running

Things accomplished this week:

Moved to a new server - after many, many frustrating down times (5 times a week?!! Unacceptable!)
Changed to a 3-column layout - aah much better… my sidebar was getting a bit too long
Fixed the comment bug - there was a bug in the 3-column format.
Wrote 5 posts based on the theme “Entertainment”

I’m inspired by Lady S‘ list of Happy Things. I’ve read the same book — 14,000 Things to be Happy About — some time ago. I do have similar lists, but they are written over multiple entries in my blogs and numerous sketchbooks, so maybe it’s time to put them all in one list. I’m also thinking of tackling the top 100 movies of all time. But which from list? AFI? Time? Rotten Tomatoes?

Thanks for the Entertainment

Cats (my own and in general)
The Office (both the British and American versions)
Oprah
Project Runway
Heroes (I hope season 3 is good)
America’s Next Top Model (heh…)
Tonight Show with Jay Leno
THE INTERNETS

Have a good Friday and enjoy the weekend!

Who Are These People?

Quiz time. Which one of the people on this list was supposedly referred to as “Britain’s first Asian rock star”? Which one was featured in my post here? Who are the rest?

Robert Van Winkle
John Francis Bongiovi Jr.
Stacy Ann Ferguson
Charles Hardin Holley
Demetria Guynes
Farrokh Bulsara
Nicolas Kim Coppola
Alecia Moore
David Robert Jones
Brian Hugh Warner
Robert Alan Zimmerman
Reginald Kenneth Dwight
Curtis James Jackson III
Stanley Kirk Burrel
Georgios Kyriacos Panayiotou

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Irregardless - Nom de Guerre
Music Star Real Name

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Entertain Me

Hello again. Are you feeling bored?
Here’s a short list of websites I visit to get my dose of entertainment:

Giant Step - is where I go to discover new artists. There are a lot of high-quality music tracks that you could listen for free here.

BBC Music - Informative site with a comprehensive guide to music.

Rotten Tomatoes - I wouldn’t watch a movie before checking out its Rotten Tomatoes rating.

Readprint - If you’re like me and like to seek entertainment within the pages of a book(or rather webpages of the internet) this website will be great for you. There’s a massive collection of classics that you can read online like Pride and Prejudice, The Animal Farm and the best of Shakespeare.

Youtube - But of course! I could waste hours jumping from one mindless video to another. It’s the best thing since sliced bread!

I am bored - The names says it all. Links to stuff to do when you are bored.

Nitrome - The cutest pixel games on the net. Warning: Be prepared to waste hours on this website.

Desert Island Entertainment

Desert Island Tuesday is inspired by Desert Island Discs. I imagine myself a castaway on a desert island and am allowed to have a few items with me, based on the theme for the week. This week theme is Entertainment.

Hello again from a warm, tropical island! I’ve been eating a lot of make-believe fish and rice the past week. The monkeys have been entertaining me with their silly tricks but I think I’m getting tired of the same routine. Luckily this week’s Entertainment week so I’m allowed to order a couple of discs online. My top 3 music albums and movies are listed below. Enjoy!

Albums

Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band by The Beatles - Quintessential album with everything - catchy positivity(It’s Getting Better) and epic masterpiece (A Day in the Life)

The Great Escape by Blur - Full of happy tunes and sweet memories of my teen years

Life in Cartoon Motion by Mika - Love Today! Lollipop! Relax! Happy Ending! You can’t go wrong with this.

Movies

Amélie - Beautiful, triumphant, quirky, special, funny, charming. A feel-good movie I could just watch over and over again.

Lost in Translation - Loneliness. Strangers. Foreign country. Kinda like being on a desert island.

Labyrinth - David Bowie dancing his magic dance…in tights. INSTANT WIN?!!

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